Reader, I no longer delude myself into thinking I can control everything.Change disrupts balance, so things are bound to go awry, even with a solid plan.One minute, you're as free as a bird. The next minute, life can feel suffocating.What's even worse?It's impossible to predict when the hailstorm—the chaos—will occur, so no amount of planning can prevent it. For instance: Early last week, unexpectedly, commitments crammed my schedule full.It happened so fast that I didn't know when I started...